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Ladies, do you enjoy anal sex? Most guys are eager to stick their dick in a woman's ass, but I can't tell how many women truly enjoy it, versus tolerate it simply because their men like it.

So, anal sex: love it, hate it, tolerate it?

Posted on: 21 Apr '10 01:16

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OldBaldy
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Well, Maldita, my better (and much younger) half rather enjoys it - now. I was very hot for anal sex when we first got together. I didn't force it, but I let her know it was high on the list of things I enjoyed. So she said sure. And I tried to be thoughtful, not in a hurry, lots of lube, teaching her the clench technique, everything I knew that would help her enjoy it. And I thought she did.

She never complained and I did ask her about it. We indulged in it quite often and she was always willing. If she she showed any hesitation, I'd try something else. So I was really surprised when I found out that she didn't like it at first. It took almost a year of it before she really started to enjoy it. She told me later, actually when we were answering a question posed here in the forum, that while she didn't mind it at first, it wasn't all that hot for her.

That was a bump for me because I thought we had a pretty honest and open relationship in terms of communication. If it was "ho-hum" or worse, I expected her to tell me. She said she did not mind doing it and was happy to see me enjoying myself. Hard to argue with.

But now she will ask for it. Particularly if she's playing with a dildo up front, she will ask if I want nail her in the ass at the same time. If I am not up to it, I will find one of the other dildos, lube it up, and she will be moaning extra loud in short order.

She is busy but stopped long enough to read this before I posted, so it has her "approval".

Posted on: 21 Apr '10 01:47

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RebandSexyC
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QUOTE (milotbooth @ 21 Apr '10 01:16)
Ladies, do you enjoy anal sex? Most guys are eager to stick their dick in a woman's ass, but I can't tell how many women truly enjoy it, versus tolerate it simply because their men like it.

So, anal sex: love it, hate it, tolerate it?


Neither. I don't like it.

Sexy C

Posted on: 21 Apr '10 06:38

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perri69
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QUOTE (RebandSexyC @ 21 Apr '10 06:38)
QUOTE (milotbooth @ 21 Apr '10 01:16)
Ladies, do you enjoy anal sex? Most guys are eager to stick their dick in a woman's ass, but I can't tell how many women truly enjoy it, versus tolerate it simply because their men like it.

So, anal sex: love it, hate it, tolerate it?


Neither. I don't like it.

Sexy C


Ditto! And my hubby donīt like it ether, so we donīt have to worry about it

Posted on: 21 Apr '10 06:48

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halo
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QUOTE (perri69 @ 21 Apr '10 06:48)
QUOTE (RebandSexyC @ 21 Apr '10 06:38)
QUOTE (milotbooth @ 21 Apr '10 01:16)
Ladies, do you enjoy anal sex? Most guys are eager to stick their dick in a woman's ass, but I can't tell how many women truly enjoy it, versus tolerate it simply because their men like it.

So, anal sex: love it, hate it, tolerate it?


Neither. I don't like it.

Sexy C


Ditto! And my hubby donīt like it ether, so we donīt have to worry about it

not in a millon years halo

Posted on: 21 Apr '10 17:28

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MnMs
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done it a few times to pls my husband but I dont really enjoy it.
He tries every once in a while but I think I had my fill.

Posted on: 22 Apr '10 10:34

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fukbunnies
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I freaking LOVE it!!! Want his cock in my ass everytime we have sex... I cum harder and faster...scream louder. I get really bummed if I'm with a guy who doesn't like doing it. Took me years to try it, a friend of mine kept saying how much she liked it so I started playing with a toy on my own. The first time I got a real cock in my ass I was hooked.

Posted on: 22 Apr '10 18:59

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OldBaldy
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Wow, MnMs ... So sorry to hear that you are going to give up on the anal, but great that you were willing and at least tried. As I said above, it took Maldita a year of doing occasionally for her to really warm up to it and start asking for it. Maybe not something you have the interest or patience for.

And individuals are simply built differently. Our wiring aka nerve endings and sensitivity is different in each and every person. So what can feel amazing to one can be very "ho hum" to another. But I do love see photos of women taking a nice turgid cock in their ass. A whole lot of sexual pleasure is mental.

In MnMs case, I will have to be satisfied seeing her in those fantastic high heeled "fuck me" stilettos. Very very cool shoes, MnMs!

Posted on: 22 Apr '10 22:18

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RebandSexyC
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Obviously there are women out there that enjoy it and good for them, but the rest of us don't. Begging, pleading, whining, and trying to sneak one in wont make us change our minds. If the woman involved doesn't want it then that should be the end of it. We all know the guys love it and feel all of us should give in to their wants but I am one that has no interest in it. I don't care how good you THINK it feels "amazing" for us it doesn't to a lot of us. If the person you are involved with likes it then concentrate on her but don't think the rest of the female population raises our asses for your pleasure.

Sexy C

Posted on: 23 Apr '10 05:55

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OldBaldy
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Whining, yeah ... we guys are kinda familiar with that.

I agree with Sexy C that no one should be forced into doing something they really don't want to. And if you partner doesn't want to indulge, you need to respect that.

Posted on: 23 Apr '10 08:00

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Did it some in my 20's & enjoyed...but don't give it a thought now.
I have too many other ideas that keep things interesting & the sheets warm! With that being said, it's never been an issue in my last 3 realtionships.

Posted on: 24 Apr '10 20:28

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i hate it, i try a few times but cant do that

Posted on: 25 Apr '10 10:11

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Reb48
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By the818papi. I take it you didn't take the time to READ the rules did you?

Posted on: 28 Apr '10 16:29

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Hi i was introduced to anal by my husband 3 years ago i had asked if he had any fantasies and he said he wanted to fuck my arse. We got some lube and anal beads from a sex shop as well as a porn dvd about anal. I felt so horny i also bought some sexy lingerie.We got home and in minutes i was dressed like a slut in a basque tiny g string stockings and 5inch heels. We put the dvd on i loved seeing girls getting arse fucked and i lubed up the beads and bent over so alan got a good view of me pushing the beads up mz arse i loved it and was soon fucking my ass as fast as i could .I was soon begging alan 2 fuck my ass. I'll never 4get feeling his cock sliding up my ass pain plus pleasure i felt so slutty and was soon asking dan 2 fuck me harder.From that day i have loved anal and regulaly ask alan 2 fuck my ass i also love using beads and vibros on my pussy and ass esp if alans watching. So there u have it im a 29 respectable wife who loves being bent over and fucked up the butt like a whore. Love jane x

Posted on: 30 Apr '10 20:39

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jsmnuk
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Butt-friendly people are cool as hell.


Posted on: 01 May '10 02:18

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For the ladies ...try kneeling on the couch facing the back and have him play with your clit from behind and then slowly lube the area around the backdoor...then the backdoor and have him lubed also...when he slides it in go slow and get use to the feeling and relax...if your legs are spread a little and you rub your clit with your hand, you will then experience a tingling and a strong orgasm..soon you will wish you had another man in front of you !!!!

Posted on: 04 May '10 11:26

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I will do it on occasion, but I far prefer vaginal. I have found that nearly every guy I've ever been with (and chatted with) wants to have anal badly. Just an observation.

Posted on: 04 May '10 11:39

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My wife likes it sume times but she has to be very terned on to rellyget into it I like it sume times with a finger or dildo . but must have plenty oil. When we do it it rely terns ME on crack a fat big time.

Posted on: 05 May '10 07:56

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DestinedLovers
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Yes,I love it. But i'm lucky have the sexist most generous lover... plenty of lube and plenty of preparation and plenty of patience... just as well because my jack has the thickest cock ever!

Posted on: 06 May '10 18:21

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blackbird009
blackbird009's profile Couple, F 47 / M 46
truly love anal sex just love double penetration too but plug and dick mmmmmmmmm but a question how do i stop the mess,,, he doesnt mind it but i do,,,, he washes my ass out with his fingers and that works well but still initially messy????
oh love rimming too doing it and getting it done to me mmmmm

Posted on: 07 May '10 10:40

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QUOTE (fukbunnies @ 22 Apr '10 18:59)
I freaking LOVE it!!! Want his cock in my ass everytime we have sex... I cum harder and faster...scream louder. I get really bummed if I'm with a guy who doesn't like doing it. Took me years to try it, a friend of mine kept saying how much she liked it so I started playing with a toy on my own. The first time I got a real cock in my ass I was hooked.


we should meet lol.

Posted on: 19 May '10 15:05

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I love anal sex so much. It gives me such intense orgasms.I love a guy being right up to his balls in my ass.Slow and deep is the best for me.Some guys think i love a cock in my ass more than in my pussy, but that is sooo not true.Sometimes though I am in the mood for anal sex only cos i want to have certain orgasms, if that makes sense.I've tried double anal but that was a bit too much for me, so i'll stick to a cock in my pussy and a cock in my ass, a cock in each hand and a cock in my mouth. Now thats one hell of a fuck fest.

Posted on: 21 May '10 19:21

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seanbondplay
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Anal sex like any other act should be a mutual want and desire, never forced or made other feel obligated that they should do it.

It takes a lot of patience, trust, and bonding before a lady can be relaxed physically and mentally to engage in the act. It is a very slow process to get to the point of where she would feel comfortable with it. The sphincter muscel is in fact very elastic and once played with and penetrated slowly and lovingly will open up and adjusts to accommodate the cock. Guys like it as it is a much tighter fit and the friction of the penetration is enough to send us to orgasm.

But is doesn't matter if she is not into it. Don't push it and those cases where she is willing to try it...don't rush it. So many anally inlclined or at least open minded ladies lost total interest after the first try becuase neither of themn knew what to do about it and how to do it. Unlike vagina that provides its own lubrication, ass needs additional lubricant. No the spit or your cum is not good enough.

Sean

Posted on: 24 May '10 16:46

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I won't stick my cock in a woman's arse, anal sex just doesn't interest me either.

Posted on: 25 May '10 01:01

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i enjoy it after a while at first it hurts but it does get good

Posted on: 25 May '10 11:15

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